So far it has been rough and painful, yet I'm moving forward as best I can in this relationship. Some might say, "John, this relationship of yours does not count, it isn't real." That might be true yet, considering a friend and I had a few knocking of the heads yet, we made up, doesn't that show that it isn't "fake?" If it was, this relationship would be over in my opinion.
One thing regarding human love is that it can change, not be entirely real or fade vs. God's love is non-stop and has no bounds. To me that is pretty cool considering some of the crap & bad stuff I have done.
Still this relationship I have is different; I don't know what is or will be down the road nor am I shutting out my other friends. I'm just sharing that I am learning/finding out more.
Is this love thing singled out and nobody else? No, otherwise I could not love Dad, Mom, or my brother. Love is complex and has different meanings/layers just like our relationships. One thing in communications class is that a relationship is like an onion. Layers ranging from surface stuff i.e. how are you? to the deep, inner core i.e. what is your deepest fear? That kinda stuff.
I hope that helps and just gives ya something to chew on as you go through this week.
Have a good one all. :)

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