Relationships

One wonders about life at times. I have found out (as many of you out there have) that any relationship is complex and can be challenging as well. The key thing about any relationship is that one must be diligent in working stuff out. Be it good or bad or something entirely in between. That is the key. If one forgets to do that, things will get funky that's for sure. I'm not even talking about marriages here, just the regular friends you have at work, church, school, etc.


One of my friends and had a long talk last night (chatting online if you wanna be picky :P ) about some stuff. What was going on between us/what each of us thought about our friendship. It was a good talk don't get me wrong and somewhat confusing. Though the key is we talked vs just one of us bailing out. Something stuck my nerve and I pinged my friend and said ok have fun/whatever and was gonna just log and go sleep. Yet, my friend said hold on wait/talk and we did for quite awhile. I'm glad my friend did that.


So, in closing if you are feeling funky about a relationship, just sit down over a cup of coffee and just talk. You'll be amazed at how just by talking, discussing, and thinking about what's going on how it will help you then and down the road. The bonus of course, it makes your relationship stronger. :)